UNDERSTANDING YOUR LIBRA LOVER

As September begins to wind down and the leaves begin to turn, the starts in the night sky change and the wheel of life moves into the sign of Libra. (Sept. 23 thru Oct. 22). This sign represents the sign of balance and most Libras that you meet will go out of their way to see that both sides of the story are fairly represented before making a decision. Libra is big on harmony. If the love of your life is a Libra, he or she will expect you to provide a harmonious atmosphere to live in.  Libras believe in the sanctity of marriage; they do not divorce without a lot of soul searching and determination.  The Libran considers time to be precious and doesn’t seem to want to be bothered with things they don’t think are important. 

It is always important to know the rising sign under which a Libran was born. You need to know this to understand the “hidden” influences in your Libra’s life. Since Libras are all about the balance in life, their lives are not always easy. It is difficult for a Libra to coexist in a relationship with a person whose life is in continuous chaos. Libras don’t do well with family problems or inter-family problems. When discord arises, the Libra would rather just be totally alone.

Most Libras are good looking, kind and a good judge of character. Many Libras are artistic. Libras can’t stand to witness cruelty to other people or animals. They are good listeners but rarely offer advice (though if you ask they will tell you what is wrong with your life). Libras aren’t flirts and, although they have a strong sex drive, aren’t promiscuous. Because Libras always want to see both sides of a situation they have problems making up their minds.

Don’t try to hide things from a Libra. Most Libras are super intuitive and know what you are going to say before you do. 
On the other side of the Libra coin you might find a person with a love for gambling. Libras are notorious gamblers and many of them make a lot of money that way. Libras also tend to be extremely jealous so try not to provoke that trait in the person you love by flirting with another person in his or her presence.

Do not treat a Libra’s feelings lightly. Libras are like swans and tend to mate for life. Even if a serious romance ends, the Libra will never lose the feeling that first brought the two of them together. Libras rarely leave a relationship; they have to be left. They often beat themselves up over things that are not their fault when a relationship goes sour and stay past the time to leave because of the desire to “fix” everything and make it alright. 

This year the Libra will have to fight a battle within. This will be the year to decide what is the most important in the Libra’s life and it will be a terribly difficult decision. This year the Libra is going to have to stop trying to please everyone at once and stand up for his or her own positive traits.

---